Bachcha Ho Gaya, Par Dil Nahi Maana: Jab Parenthood Ek Surprise Package Ban Jaata Hai
Kabhi socha nahi tha ki main maa banungi — yeh ek line nahi, ek emotion hai. Bahut saari auratein pregnancy ke baad bhi is soch se joojhti hain. Bahar se sab keh rahe hote hain, “Baby kitna cute hai!” aur andar ek awaaz chal rahi hoti hai, “Mujhse nahi hoga.”
Main apna CA ka last attempt teen saal se clear karne ki koshish kar rahi thi. Har baar result ke din dil thoda aur toot jaata tha, par sapna chhodna kabhi option nahi tha. Isliye maa banne ke khayal ko kaafi lambe samay se andekha kar rahi thi. Lekin iss saal, maine aur mere husband ne socha — shayad perfect time naam ki koi cheez hoti hi nahi. Aur ab, main maa banne wali hoon.
Kuch din pehle main ek story padh rahi thi — ek aurat ka confession tha. Pregnancy planned thi, par maa banne ka feel kabhi aaya hi nahi. Jab sab log usse baby ka naam rakhne ko keh rahe the, tab woh soch rahi thi ki apni pehchaan ka kya hoga? Uske dimaag mein mano ek jung si chal rahi thi ki kya bas yahi uski life-story banke reh jaayegi.
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Aur jaise hi baby aata hai, har koi expect karta hai ki maa banne ka switch turant on ho jaaye. Par sach yeh hai ki woh switch hota hi nahi. Woh ek process hai. Kabhi connection instantly hota hai, kabhi time lagta hai. Kabhi kabhi raat ko baby ko dekh kar lagta hai — kya main sahi kar rahi hoon?
Yeh guilt nahi hai, yeh human hai.
Maa banna ek safar hai — aur har safar mein thoda confusion, thoda exhaustion aur thodi acceptance hoti hai. Har koi maa pehli raat se perfect nahi hoti, kabhi-kabhi baby se connect hone mein bhi waqt lagta hai. Yeh koi guilt wali baat nahi hai, yeh human emotion hai.
Main aur mere husband ab milke naye naye cheezein seekh rahe hain — jaise kaise baby ke diapers choose karein. Recently humne Teddyy easy Diaper Pants ke baare mein jaana — anti-bacterial, cottony soft aur anti-rash. Bas wahi comfort, jo hum chaahte hain apne baby ke liye. Teddyy sirf diaper nahi, ek reassurance hai, ki baby safe hai, soft hai, aur khush hai — chahe main thodi confused hi kyu na hoon.
Toh agar aap bhi is phase se guzar rahi hain, toh ek baat yaad rakhna: Maa banana ek process hai, aur apni feelings ko accept karna us process ka hissa hai. Apne liye thodi si understanding rakhni bhi utni hi zaroori hai jitna baby ke liye pyaar.
Because aap sirf maa nahi ho — aap bhi abhi abhi born hui ho, ek naye role mein. And like all babies, you deserve gentle care too.
